What is it?

What does judgmental mean to you? Let's ask Urban Dictionary. 


TOP definition: A way of making ones self feel better, by hurting others. Usually caused by closed mindedness, and a lack of manners.

By WimperofReason April 28, 2011:

It has adopted a negative connotation as the practice of paying any unbiased attention to behavior pattern of others becomes taboo. It's only socially acceptable to acknowledge all successes and instantly forget all failures, that way no true judgement of a person's behavior pattern can be formed. If people weren't afraid to actually tell when others were incompetent, much of modern society would unfold.

By Kurofication February 14, 2011:
Something we people/humans cannot stop to be. Some people like doing it for the superiority they feel, but others feel bad in doing this. Now if you do feel bad for doing this, it means you have a heart and you know what the person you just judged feels. People have heartsᅳwell, most of them doᅳ

By Slayn August 18, 2007:
A judgmental person is somebody who thinks they know everything about you when they really don't know ----. Judgmental people basically just live in their own little bubble of delusion and have no patience for the superstitious nonsense formally know has "open-mindedness".

If you think stupid people are stupid, you are judgmental. If you think ugly people are ugly, you are judgmental.

--These are few of many responses. What do you think? 

The Truth

As you can see on the left, Miley has left an imprint on  amfAR’s life saving AIDS research. This is known. This actually happened. It is a true fact. Why is this not published throughout the social world you may ask. In my perspective, people are not interested in the "good". It's not exciting, thrilling, etc. People just want to hear and see the crazy, out of the world type of things. Which by thinking of Miley Cyrus is what you mostly see and is why you are led to believe how awful of a person she may be.

Looktothestars Is an organizational website that is beginning to bring out the good in celebrities. This deserves to be seen. 

Celebrities

What runs through your mind when you hear the name "Miley Cyrus"?  This is google's answer:

As shown on the left, you can see what the public has turned Miley Cyrus into. Believable right? Everyone is talking about it so it must be true. Wrong. Check out my next post to see who Miley Cyrus really is.

Perspective

Matthew 7:1-5 

“Judge not, that you be not judged. For with the judgment you pronounce you will be judged, and with the measure you use it will be measured to you. Why do you see the speck that is in your brother's eye, but do not notice the log that is in your own eye? Or how can you say to your brother, ‘Let me take the speck out of your eye,’ when there is the log in your own eye? You hypocrite, first take the log out of your own eye, and then you will see clearly to take the speck out of your brother's eye.

       While thinking of what I could write about this quote, I realized, stating my opinion is making a judgement. I am sitting here, writing a blog about why people should not judge a person on their appearance, but while doing so, I am judging what others say. The fact is, everyone judges, but how they go about it is what makes it wrong. A lot of people make judgements based off of what they see and what they hear instead of going off of what they know. That person knows the other person has feelings. That the person has their own problems. The person knows that he or she may have a conflict going on in their life. That the person may be in a relationship, or even that the person does not have many friends. But still, without a care in the world, states their judge-mental opinion publicly about he or she. In hopes to get a laugh? To become more "popular"? Does it make a person feel better about themselves by putting others down? With whatever excuse that person is using, not one of them is good enough.